“Wanting To”
Where your Wants meet!
A private way for partners to talk about what they want. You and your partner each go through a list of topics and privately mark each one yes, maybe or not for me. “Wanting To” shows you only where you overlap, so nobody ever sees a "no."
"A match opens the conversation. It doesn't replace it."
“Wanting To” is in product development and currently open by invitation only. Join the waitlist and we'll email you when there's room.
From a match to a conversation
- Only the overlapYour "not for me" answers are never shown to anyone, not even your partner.
- Talk it throughDiscuss any match in private messages, write down shared Agreements, or plan an Experience and reflect on it afterwards.
- Encrypted at restEverything personal is encrypted. Your journal lives in a separate database our admin tools can't open.
- Text-only messagingNo photos pass through the app, so there's nothing intimate to leak or forward.
- No strangers, no adsInvite-only connections between people who already know each other. No tracking, no advertising.
- More than two is fineConnect with each partner separately and choose exactly what each one sees.
Free to start
Free
- 1 partner connection
- 10 Preference selections
- Matching and Mood
- Private text messaging
Premium
- Unlimited partners and Preferences
- Group chats (text-only)
- Experiences and private Reflections
- Encrypted Intimacy Journal with PDF export
- Premium included for one partner you invite, one at a time*
* The included Premium covers one partner at a time and can't be shared with more people. Any other partners you connect with use their own plan, Free or Premium. Partner connections themselves are unlimited.
For adults 18+. Premium renews monthly until you cancel, and you can cancel any time. Tax is added where it applies. Charges appear as WHATBOXLABS. See the Terms, the Subscription & Refund Policy and the Privacy Policy. Questions: hello@whatboxlabs.com.
Hear when “Wanting To” opens
Join the waitlist on wantingto.com. You'll confirm your email, and we'll send one invitation when there's room. That's it. We never share your address.
For adults 18+. Tip: an email address that doesn't include your name is fine, and some people prefer it. See the “Wanting To” privacy policy.